I’m aware that a person with such behavior doesn’t have anything good to offer to a love relationship or a friendship. He asked me for my work schedule and I gave him a wrong schedule on purpose. he finally got the hint and stopped calling and coming to my door. My work assignment changed and I’m now working from home (telecommuting). I inevitably greeted him in a not effusive way just to be polite without any sexual meaning. As the others have said, you need to stop hiding in your apartment when he knocks on your door and answer it. OR someone to pretend like they live there for awhile.

So the following time he called me, I gave him an excuse to avoid another encounter. He replied the greeting and both followed our separate ways. Tell him very clearly you don't want to see him again and to stop coming by. They could pretend to be your big brother, and tell this guy to stop bothering you.

But I don’t like either to reject others by appearances.

I met a man in his low 50s, well dressed, nice physical appearance who was also on his way to the same church.

We talked lightly while on the bus and he seated next to me once we got to the church.

In other words, he is closeted and behaves with me like a sexual maniac without a clinical diagnosis.

In third place, he apparently has too much free time without engaging in anything productive like volunteer work or something else which can prevents him from falling into addictions or any other kind of criminal behavior. The following days after we had sex by first time, he came to my door without notice.

In first place, I noticed that he was watching carefully everything I have in my apartment. In second place, it seems like he has many repressed sexual urges and has not found a healthy and honest way to deal with it.

In other words, he is closeted and behaves with me like a sexual maniac without a clinical diagnosis. There is a limit to how much you should put up with.

I want to move to a better neighborhood, but I am limited by two circumstances: (a) I don’t have a car, and (b) a limited budget.

In spite of the bad fame of this area, it is very urbanized, highly commercial and convenient for public bus (5 different buses run around here). As I mentioned before, I avoid getting too close with my neighbors because of this kind of area.

In third place, he apparently has too much free time without engaging in anything productive like volunteer work or something else which can prevents him from falling into addictions or any other kind of criminal behavior. The following days after we had sex by first time, he came to my door without notice. But I think there is a good chance he will stop coming over if you just tell him you don't want to see him anymore.