If you start to act needy, an alarm bell will instantly sound in his head warning him that he’s losing his freedom and he will instinctively pull away from you.Now you might be wondering, how can I fix this and undo the damage?Sometimes too much neediness from you is enough to cause him to back away.

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It doesn’t necessarily mean anything about you or how great of a girlfriend you’ve been.

Maybe he’s not ready for something so serious, or maybe he’s a little unsure if you’re really the woman he sees himself spending the rest of his life with. Two people can love each other very much and still not be right for each other in the long run.

If he wants to talk to you about it, he’ll seek you out.

And if he does, make sure you listen to him, don’t use this as an opportunity to voice your opinions on the matter and try to solve it for him.

The answer is the same as above, just pull back, give him space, and focus on yourself.

Working overtime trying to undo the damage caused by acting needy is still you acting needy.

The biggest mistake you can make is not giving him the space to do this.

If you harp on him and pester him to talk to you and open up he will see you as another source of stress in his life and will pull away even more.

Instead of trying to fix it and reel him back, forgive yourself for being needy, acknowledge that it’s OK and everything will be fine, and give him some space to come to you.