I went back to see her again to hook up another time, but our dynamic had changed and I was very confused.We eventually talked it out and she explained that she just didn't feel a connection with me. I had put myself out there and went against my normal pattern of traditional dating to have a chance at casually hooking up with this girl, and getting turned down put me in a really bad place for awhile.How often do you tell the people you're having one-night stands with that it's just going to be a one-night stand?

I will contact them twice, and if they don't respond, or I feel that they're are not interested, I'll leave them alone.

Man B: A girl I knew at college was interested in me and I was interested in her, so I traveled to see her and we had a one-night stand.

Man B: I'm not really very happy with either of those, but if I had to choose, I would choose friends with benefits.

There's a certain kinship in a FWB relationship that is very comforting and the mutual understanding does wonders for the confidence of the relationship.

Plus, I've seen what people become when they get in relationships, and I really don't want or need that in my life right now.

I've tried having friends with benefits, which is obviously ideal, but one person always ends up having feelings for the other person, and if you are only having sex with that person, than you really are kind of in a relationship without even knowing it.

Man A: Seeing as we were both tourists who totally knew we would never see each other again, we were both into it.

That's probably just because it was so defined and people are usually more inclined to do things they normally wouldn't do when they're on vacation, so I have no idea how she feels about one-night stands in general. I just saw it as two people who connected for a night, had a lot of fun, and then went their separate ways.

It doesn't always work though because no matter what you tell some women, they still expect more, but for my own conscience, I feel I did the right thing. I also always text them the next day and am really nice to them because sometimes I want to add them to my friends with benefits roster.

Man B: My one-night stands have always been spontaneous, so I've never been in the position to tell them it would be a one-night stand. How do you deal with misunderstandings about the seriousness of the hookup?

Man A: If we are talking about one and done, then it's probably about 30 percent.