Why interracial dating is bad
"The picture either turns out way too dark or way too bright." 3.When you both have to adjust to a few linguistic differences.
When it comes to interracial dating, the people who’ve been there will tell you there can definitely be struggles.
In a recent Ask Reddit thread, interracial couples laid out the real obstacles they encounter daily that they weren’t expecting before they got together.1. "My husband and I went to Disney World with my side of the family. We’re in line and when it’s our turn for the ride, they always cut the line off when it got to him," says Reddit user captawesome1794.
One white man with a Hindu wife explains that "there’s a word in Tamil [her language] that literally translates to ’useless,’ but the Tamil word is often used colloquially to mean something closer to ’not currently needed,’" says Reddit user YWAK98alum.
"But that doesn’t stop my wife from describing all kinds of people (including me, frequently) as straight-up ’useless,’ including to their faces, and then wondering why these people either get angry or just avoid her." 4.
Many cite the response rates from the OKCupid studies, and also refer to our own subjective personal experiences.
And it’s understandable why they would reference these statistics.
"I have had people come up to me and tried to stop me from picking her up.
I’ve had people straight out ask me who her father is." 10.
"Usually only happens if we are just standing next to each other and not really talking.